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Sunday, April 22, 2012 An article that I came across whiich I found very truee. STAGE 1 (1-3 Months): The Honeymoon Stage Everything seems perfect, both are happy and feeling “in love.” You share moments, dates and just having fun with each other, sharing laughs and giggles. It’s like nothing could stop you. Your feelings are infinite, and for once you’re thinking, “This may work out….” and it seems like nothing could go wrong. You spend hours getting ready before going out with this person. *If your relationship ended in this stage — Most likely, both rushed into the relationship too quickly. Being together was all too sudden and just for the moment. When one starts noticing the flaws, one gets a choice to move foward, or back away. Being friends has a high percentage of working out, but nothing to stress over. Both may just need the time to get to know one another better. -- STAGE 2 (4-6 months): The Bumpy Road Things are going okay now. The relationship is calm and settled; both are still mostly happy. Had a couple arguments and disagreements here and there, nothing huge. Start to notice some of each other’s flaws and aspects of their personalities not seen before, but still truly care for one another. *If your relationship ended in this stage — You truly cared about this person. You had the energy to fight for this person, yet you feel as if something was lacking, something was missing. It doesn’t feel right, one isn’t happy. When one isn’t happy, one tends to walk away to seek their new happiness. Being friends is still a possibility. -- STAGE 3 (7-12 months): The Rocky Mountain You start to realize who your partner really is. A few more arguments may occur. Problems with jealously, overprotectiveness may arise. Other people may come in the picture. The “in love” moments start to decrease, but you feel as if you’ve “fallen in love.” You tend to have this energy inside to strive and “make it work,” and you feel more comfortable being around this person, feeling more of yourself. *If your relationship ends in this stage — You feel as if you’re hurt, depending on the circumstances. You were so sure that that person was “The One.” You were so SURE that he/she was different. But like a cancer, a problem that may have happened, a small issue, grew into something larger that took over what was made between two people. You still miss this person from time to time. You still remember the memories. Being friends may be difficult right away, but over time, you slowly mature up, and learn the reality of it. -- STAGE 4 (1 year or more): The Long Road 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 years, huh? This person truly means something to you. You are “in love” with this person. He/she made a difference in your life. No one else knows you more than this person. You guys have been through the good, the bad, and the ugly, and still strive to make it last. *If your relationship ends in this stage — You feel heartbroken; it’s tough. You can’t sleep, can’t eat, you miss him/her, you try to move on, you try meeting new people, but seems like nothing works. For whatever reason the split occured, it must’ve been something important, or something must have been so wrong that it took over. Being “just friends” is impossible, because if you tried to be friends, you wouldn’t be able to think of them in any other way besides the one you once “loved.” Saturday, November 12, 2011 I've gotta say, i'm very addicted to gossip girls. Especially to chuck & blair's love. so intense, so loving, so deep, so true. I just thank god i'm not surrounded by tight ass bitches that backstabs everyone, (at least not at the moment). I could watch the apology forever. I'm here to apologise for everything else. I'm sorry for losing my temper the night you told me louis proposed to you I'm sorry for not waiting longer at the empire state building I'm sorry for treating you like property I'm sorry I dint tell you I loved you when I knew I did and most of all, I'm sorry I gave up on us when you never did.. like i said, intense love. :) back to the real life. How often do you pay for your own stupidity? It comes in forms of fines, fees, etcetc. I guess it's common just that we dont usually think of it as "paying for our stupidity". just a thought. today's my treat to my dad! i'm gonna get him the black pepper crab and chilli crab he so much crave for. i should take photos and post it up later! where would you recommend for the best chilli and black pepper crab? Just for laughs~ "How can i be so STUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU~" - classic sheldon. I finally took the first step to amend a mistake i regretted in the past. And i'm really glad i did. We should never live in regrets and complains about our lives. we should always try the change what we're unhappy with! it takes courage to take the first step, but if you never try, you will never know the outcome too. :) 3 years of regret ends now. never dismiss someone from the first look. you never know what you've missed. xoxo, ashleyy. :] Wednesday, October 26, 2011 I've been sick the last two days and i've gotta say, sickness makes me bitchy and very irritable. so anyhow, the past two weeks, i've became miserable and maybe to a point of depressed. and right now, i'm hating my job. i hate the feeling of not knowing how to do things and is so dependent on others just like an infant. called me spoilt but im handing out awards to "best" seniors who are simply too absorbed to care. anyway, i dont know how long i can hang in there for. but i'm betting not long. I've been caught up with work that it kinda made me forget what i used to do in the past. with my weekly english series to catch up on and my weekdays kangxilaile to entertain me. so i finally watched some kangxi this week and found myself laughin to their jokes. now, this is definitely what i need everyweek. i just need to rmb to watch the shows! i definitely miss uni and i cannot wait for the end of november to come so that i can spend some crazy time with my friends :) in addition, i SOOOO need to get out of the house! i've not really been going out except for running errands, and even so, it's with my parents. i feel like i'm the most filial child right now being home every weekend. but that also translate to me having NO LIFE. i feel like my camera is also dying at the moment. i wanna go out to shoot something. or just to have some fun in the sun. i NEED TO GO OUT THIS WEEK!. anyone? speaking about hobby. i still havent found one yet. altho my dad keeps pressurising me to do yoga. but i have yet had time to try it out. but i FINALLY went running last weekend. i only managed to run abit and just walked the rest. but it was awesomely good to just go out and take my mind off work. yes, work is definitely sucking my soul away. maybe if i manage to go running everyday, i will be able to survive this job. but running is so boringgg... ah wells. maybe if i find ppl to run everytime, i wont get this bored. new phrase that i learnt today - "大水冲了龙王庙，一家人不认一家人“ till next time! Sunday, October 09, 2011 Hello everyone! I know it's been a very long time since i blogged. In fact, i dont even know who follows this blog anymore! but well, i shall keep it updated now. I think it's beneficial for me to put some thoughts down instead of holding up everything in my brain. So anyway, i've started work now. We had our orientation in KL, tgt with our malaysian colleagues. I can't rmb much of the seminar but i do rmb the after party. It was kbox-ing with my new colleagues and midnight movie of FRIGHT NIGHT. Funniest part of this afterparty, we were all so much more afraid of walking back to our hotel than the show itself.  say CHEESEE :) But for now, the training days are just over, and the real test comes tmr when we are assigned to our respectives job. The late nights will start all the way till next year god knows when. But i made a promise to myself that i'm gonna be those disciplined people that completes their work efficiently and effectively. Hopefully with this motto, i would be able to come home earlier and have abit of life. :)  the new assistants in my department! 24 of us! all fresh and young looking! let's see what happens one year from now. On other notes, I should really take up some hobby or something to fill my weekends. Otherwise, i'm always at home and it's just unhealthy. And i think my dad is really annoyed with me being at home. what a massive change from the younger days. Oh wells, Many many ppl birthday around this time! it's my HOUSEMATE's bday!! :):) miss the good old times we had!  Happy Birthday Sawee! stay young and happy always! <3! That's all for now, but i will really make it a point to update from now. If anyone still does visit this blog, maybe leave a comment in the shoutbox or something? Saturday, June 11, 2011 Time really changes everything doesn't it. as time passes.. you're slowly becoming a figment of my imagination. Wednesday, May 11, 2011 Sometimes, we shouldn't look at things too closely cause we always end up being unhappy with the things we see after that, so why do we always inflict this pain upon ourselves? Isn't it funny how as humans, we always run away from the things we fear just because we keep building this scary image in our mind, but in actual fact, it's never that horrid. Truth hurts sometimes, but it is also with truth that we can live our lifes happily. but how many of us are brave to face the truth all the time? we always avoid it whenever we can dont we? i run away from the truth all the time. but there's always someone out there who will always encourage me to face the truth. someone who will hold my hand and tell me it's all gonna be okay. and if it's not, comfort me. but recently, i lost this someone. one of the first thoughts that came into my mind was "my wedding isn't gonna be complete now. who am i gonna fuss to about all the details? who will travel all around the world with me when i'm thirty? and many others.." and of course, i lied to myself. i told myself i was okay, but how could i possibly be okay? i know time heals everything, but not without leaving a scar behind. how would my world ever be the same again? did i really lose you..? Sunday, April 10, 2011 I shall finally do a post! and fill it picturees from way back! didnt realise how long it's been since i posted pictures! it's strange that i'm doing this right now in the middle of my exams. maybe i've given up on them. who knows? let's talk about life back in sg during the summer first! let's see.. what happened then?  My mom's birthday! and my sister was so nice to order flowers and a softtoy for her! of course, i claimed the softtoy for my own immediately though it's not my present :].  and it was meeting up with my favourite girls :] <3 it's becoming a new tradition that before every CNY, i'll go fishing with my family to catch a fish for dinner! and this yr, i caught the two biggest fishes used for CNY!  TADAH! BIG RIGHT! holding up the string itself caused me to have a mark on my finger for weeks! and that's my lovely cousin on the left :]  and this is the product of cooking HALF the fish! yums! love my family's steam fish! along with the CNY spirit, my class had a gathering to eat steamboat! it's been real long since i saw my class!  the six guys, playing around as always :]  the 7 sisters minus 2! let's hope everyone will turn up next time!  the class girls :]  and class photo! and as usual, i would set timer for 10 pictures to be taken! the remaining pictures can be found on my FB! and i hope to do this at least once a year too! summers are no longer holidays for me. i've become what renee termed as a "workaholic". i've got myself another internship at Ernst & Young.   view from their karaoke room! yep! they have a karaoke room of their own!  we had team cny lunch at this really fancy atas place that i cant rmb the name of it, but it's run by the paradise group. this is just the youngsters picture, without the bosses!  my first group of seniors on my first job! mingzhou, rachel and benjamin!  and my farewell lunch at WATAMI! that's my supervising manager(Liyun), my buddy cum senior (Leefang), my A2 (jetmay) and senior (Brendan).  a sneak into my life during my internship. i worked in this tiny room from 9 to 6 everyday. crammed w many ppl.  jetmay!   and the very old man Brendan! i will definitely miss crapping with him and wenjie. and going to chinatown during lunch time just to absorb the CNY spirit! live well old man!  and thanks wenjie for this notebook! interns dont get any so we have to beg, steal and take from our seniors. all in all, i had an enjoyable experience! and i really thank my manager and especially my buddy for being so patient with me and taking the initiative to teach me so much!. i will nv regret spending so much on royce for the team.  and lastly! of course must meet up with miss J before i come back! sadd. i cant go to her room and chat anymore :[ but thank god for technology. NOW. fly over to Australia - Brisbane.  crazy about gelatissimo? my hsemate and mine's take away pack!  and RIVERDANCE! the farewell tour! this is so exciting! although it's right smack in the middle of my exams. but anyways, we're suppose to dress up and all for it! this is where my new ankle boots come in!  Ashley's book exchange. This is what happens when u have friends that are very lazy to sell their own books. but at least i get paid. and i just rmb, someone owes me a boost drink for selling the books.  BABY LIZARD!~ cutest thing! as long as it's outside the house!  st patrick's day! - WEAR GREEN DAY!  St patrick's parade! now, that's something u dont get in sg.  jon's 24th bday celebration at punjabi! precious times! everyone's gonna be separated soon!  POLAROIDS <3!  rach and i not listening to whatever the emcee is saying during singapore welcome reception.  we're probably one of the most casual lot! people wear evening gowns and suit to this event. to do what? queue up and squeeze like a singapore for FREE food. -_-"'  last group picture to end the day!  songyao and i. this picture is just plain awkward. dont really know why he bent down when i'm not that short. oh wells. ebay has become my best friend ever since i came here. i tend to blame miss J. but look what it got me!  MY AERIAL7 - PHOENIX TANTRUM! :] <3<3!  this was taken to prove we actually went to the location in my assignment to do research! what devoted asians are we.  this is my friend's very expensive (aud$1050) bike! we dismantled it! :D  and were totally having fun out of it!  WHEELLLS!  this is a bimbotic car. no, it's not the pink rim. look carefully at it exhaust pipes. <3<3 the saddest part about overseas studies is that u have to say goodbye to ur friends very often :[. last gathering at young hee's place before she flies off to work in another country.  alisa, jon, younghee, yuleng, me.  we had so many shots and i think only this shot was truly usable!  POLAROID AGAIN :] <3. u gotta love polaroid! bad thing is that u have to pose 5 times! but at least it's all different pictures! and i got WINNIE THE POOH frame from my hsemate! gotta cherish it and take pic with ppl i like!  and after posing for polaroids, we still must have one digital one! it's 8 weeks to the completion of my last semester, 9 weeks to finals, 11 weeks till i get kick out of my hostel and become homeless, 14 weeks till i graduate and 15 weeks till i'm officially back in singapore with my degree complete. SCARY MUCH?! need to make it happen. |
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